Most people are familiar with the phrase “it is better to give than receive.” It’s cliché. I’m sure you probably heard it while at a charity event, religious function or maybe even from your 14-year-old daughter requesting funds so she can see the latest Twilight flick. The phrase has been so over used that it appears more as a marketing ploy than a proverb. Regardless of how it was first presented, have you ever taken the time to ponder whether or not it’s even true? Like can you actually give without ever receiving?
I don’t know that I have ever “just given” anything to anybody. Seriously. Every time I’ve given something, I’ve always received something in return. Just a couple weeks ago I gave away a jacket to a friend. He was stoked on the new threads. Did I receive anything from the transaction? Most Definitely. I got rid of a jacket I didn’t really want, which gave me more closet space, and at the shallowest level, I felt good about myself. It felt good blessing someone. Don’t judge me. Even Mother Theresa, who spent her whole life in poverty so she could serve the “untouchables” in Calcutta, said that she was the most selfish person in the world because of the joy she received from giving all that she had.
Receiving is part of the beauty of giving. When you give you are a part of a double blessing. First, you are the catalyst for blessing (the actually giving). Second, through the act of giving you receive blessing one way or another. That’s part of the reason why it truly is better to give than receive.





